STRUGGLES OF BEING A WOMAN
Hell Everyone! ❤
So women who read this blog post know of the truth behind that title. Right? Women often have to go through the most stressful, sometimes difficult, to downright dumbest things at times. Things that MEN have the pleasure of NOT having to experience! So I was thinking about it the other day, and came up with ten different things that women have to go through- struggles struggles struggles!
It’s a funny and light read, of some very poignant truth women face! Let me know if you agree! ❤
STRUGGLES FACE BY WOMEN!
RED ROBOT/ TIME OF THE MONTH
This is a fairly easy one to start with right? I call her Valerie, but there are many terms for this horrendous period of our lives where we just bleed for a couple of days, experience some pain, have our mood switch uncontrollably and we are just supposed to go on like nothing ever happened?! Its frustrating!! Being on our period is pretty much the struggles of 99,9% of women around the world!
2. WINGED FREAKIN EYELINER!!!
This one right here is currently the BANE of my existence! An enigma, sent to my life to test me! They always say that don’t ever ask a girl with winged eye liner why she’s late! Its so true! It is one of the hardest things to do, takes so much focus and precision, it’s absolutely, positively ANNOYING!
3. SHAVING LIKE, EVERYTHING!!
Where do I begin though!!! Unlike men, who can walk around looking like gorillas all day everyday, we women have been stuck with society’s rules of having to shave! Like EVERYTHING off! Underarms, Brazilian Strips (you know where that is! LOL), Legs, Face… FREAKIN everywhere! Takes up so much time, it’s honestly SO frustrating!
4. CHANGING YOUR HAIR ALL THE TIME : HAIR STYLING!
See now this, I HATE. Arrrrgggg!!! (rolling my eyes). There is nothing I hate more that deciding what hairstyle I should do, and how every month, I am sitting cracking my skull about what hair style I’m going for next! 😦 These are the times where a shaved bald head would suit me just fine! If only I had the courage 😦 This is pretty much how it is: weave? braids? If weave, what KIND of weave? Long, short, cut? If braids, what kind of style. Arg. Just…. arg.
5. THREADING/SHAPING YOUR BROWS
Ok, so this one is another one that I never thought I would include, but honestly, it is relatively important! LOL! Naturally, I have EXTREMELY bushy eye brow hairs! Like so bad that one level higher and I’d have a mono brow! LOL! I constantly have to Shape my brows at the salon! I hate it, its costly, and I pretty much have to do it every two weeks! If I want my eye brows to look somewhat normal, and appropriate, I have no other option!
6. WEARING HEELS
Wearing heels, is a struggle! LOL, yeah sure, it looks good, but they are a pain in the ass! The higher they are, often means how you will begin counting how many steps it takes to get to your car from the house door, lol. Determining whether you will be standing or seated at the event you’re attending in those killer heels. These are things you have to know before putting heels on! REAL STRUGGLES!
7. YOUR PERIOD RUNNING LATE
Nothing is as TERRIFYING as the moment you realize that your period is late when you’re not expecting it to be! . LOL. Sometimes we are lucky enough that it is just stress, and long days and nights, other times…LOL, Other times you might have to reach into your brain and think about your little moments where you may have not been focusing, and may have slipped up! Until Valerie comes, you are pretty much stressed out of your mind thinking…what if… I’m… LOL.
8.WEARING A BRA!!
Yea, sure! Boobs look great in a beautiful bra… but bras are uncomfortable, and feel like they are weighing your whole chest area down, especially if you are a “gifted” woman if you know what I mean!!! LOL.When it’s not a bra that looks like it was passed down from your gran, its the underwire that pokes into your skin at the most INOPPORTUNE times! LOL! Nothing feels good like removing it after a long day! Bras are annoying. Yea, I said it.
9. THAT BEING ANGRY IS A SIGN OF BEING OVER EMOTIONAL OR NEEDING TO HAVE SEX
This one urks the HECK out of me! Everytime we lose our cool, or get genuinely ANGRY over something,, we are told to “chill” (another phrase i hate), or we are told we are just being over emotional! The struggle of having to explain that “this has nothing to do with me being over emotional, I’m just ANGRY” is soooo annoying! Then you will have the male friends that ask you when was the last time you got laid because you are so tightly “wound up” GET YO LIFE!!!
10. NAIL POLISH CHIPS
You can’t tell me I’m the only one who hates this right? LOL! Your nails freshly done from the salon, and not even half an hour later, you find a chip on one nail. You don’t know how it got there, not it just throws off your whole nail polish colour and design, and its pretty much the only thing you can see! SO ANNOYING!
That is it from me! Anything else that you struggle with as a woman? Let me know!
Until the next one,
Live in Light and Love ❤