REMEMBER YOUR WORTH
I’m pretty sure that it has been QUITE a minute since I did a MM Motivational Monday post, so I thought, what better time than now to start your week with a new MM post. I think that from time to time we need to remember our worth, and what value we bring to people just by being ourselves, through our presence.
The twist though is, to REMEMBER your worth you need to KNOW your worth.
Let that sink in for a minute. ❤
To be able to remember to do something, you need to first acknowledge what it is that you may need to do. Yes? That’s exactly what I mean in this regard. You need to value yourself first, and know YOUR SELF WORTH, before remembering it, and ensuring that people don’t walk all over you.
Learning to love yourself, unequivocally and unconditionally is probably the HARDEST lesson that we have to learn throughout our lives. Some people learn it quite early, and are fortunate enough to love themselves quite early on in life, but for most of us, learning to love ourselves is a long journey… Often, loving ourselves, comes from the judgement of how OTHERS feel about us. For example, you grow up and all your friends seem to have boyfriends/girlfriends or seem to find long lasting love from an early age and you dont, and you start asking yourself, or even at other times, God, as to what is wrong with you, what can’t you find that kind of love. So you end up loving yourself based on how OTHERS see you. First, and probably the biggest mistake, and hindrance you could ever do when learning to love yourself. This is when yo’re suddenly feeling that you have to be validated by others to know your self worth. No.
HOW TO LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF
- Analyse who you are, what makes you, YOU. LEARN yourself, your likes and dislikes, etc.
- Work on yourself. Everyday.
- STOP criticizing yourself. Your body, your weight, things you don’t like about yourself. Choose thoughts that uplift you and nurture yourself.
- Change is good. Learn to accept yourself for WHO YOU ARE.
- YOUR OPINION matters. What another person thinks of you, DOES NOT MATTER. Only YOUR OPINION matters.
- Appreciate yourself. Compliment yourself, give yourself a pat on the back when having done something fulfilling ❤
“People who are truly joyful, are the ones who bring most to the world.”
– Erin Janus
Focus on your potential. Say things to yourself that remind you that you are in the process of growing, and learning yourself, so make NO room for negative talk, or negative thoughts!!
Once you do that, you put yourself in a position where, because you KNOW your worth, you are most likely to remember than, anytime a person treats you as though you are unworthy. You will not allow that to happen, when you know how much kindness and good deed you bring to the world around you and the people in it. REMEMBER your worth. Often we forget our worth, but YOU ARE WORTHY! Control yourself, and your mind to bring forward only positive thoughts, positive affirmations, and positive behaviour.
“BE YOUR BEST SELF”
STOP INFLICTING SUFFERING ON YOURSELF…
NEVER ALLOW ANYONE TO MAKE YOU FEEL UNWORTHY.
YOU ARE WORTHY.
Have a great week.
Until the next one,
Live in Light and Love ❤