“Your Actions Are a Reflection of You”
Good Morning Everyone 🙂
I hope you had a good weekend, and enjoyed it!
You know something got me thinking when I eventually decided to sit down and write this post to you guys. Sometimes I feel that you learn a lot from how people act towards you, and towards others, its just that often a lot of times, we dont pay attention to it.
Just by looking a someone acting a particular way, you can determine, their future behaviour. Legit. Right? If you tell yourself to draw conclusions of someone by watching their actions, their behaviour becomes a lot easier to read, because you are no longer focusing on their words, but rather what they DO. So if you focus on actions rather then words, you begin to notice the underlying motives that people have towards you, whether they are being insincere or sincere.
Ways to SPOT Insincerity in People
- If they are consistent at breaking promises.
- Their words and actions don’t match up.
- Have a lot to say, but do very little.
- Only come to the party, when it’s convenient for them.
The “Talkers” and the “Doers”
This is a very easy one to pick out especially among people. I’m sure you know that one person that talks a lot, but if you feed them some pressure you know they will struggle to actually “DO”. They talk and talk and talk, but frankly just can’t back up what they’re saying. Fail. Learn to spot these people, and know not to place relying on them highly on your list, because you know you just won’t win.
Lots of these right? Someone saying they will do something and then end up not doing it? Yup. Those people. You know them. Ok, but lets be honest, sometimes someone can’t GENUINELY do something, and you must take into consideration that they may be tied up. But if it happens everyday, and when you try to put effort in it, learn from their lack of effort, their action, that its not worth it to try harder on such people. So, important to give a person plenty of opportunity to prove themselves, not judge them on a one time thing.
This Monday Motivation post is to remind you that you are responsible for your actions with people, also that there are many ways to spot a person through how they act. Focus on their ACTIONS, not what they say. Anyone can SAY anything.
In this way you will be able to distinguish who is there to use you, who only cares for you when it’s convenient for them, who only thinks of you when their days are dark. This will help you spot who is worth your time and who isn’t.
Also for you, learn to take responsibility for the way you behave and the way you treat people. People will treat you how you treat them.
Something to ponder on today!
Until the next one,
Live in Light and Love ❤