“My Life is a Product of My Decisions”
Ever come across a person who always finds some way to pity themselves? Always crying over the fact that bad things keep happening to them, or how “this person did this to me”, or “At work, my boss keeps gunning for me…”. The people that complain about EVERYTHING. Even situations in which THEY place themselves in.
Stephen Covey, author of Best Seller book said:
“I am not a product of my circumstances. I am a product of my decisions.”
Reality is, there are certain things in our lives we cannot control. You cannot control or choose the family you are born into. You cannot control that your best prefers to take alcohol and substance abuse, you cannot control others’ decisions. However you CAN control how you react to any type of situation.
Is it best to get angry? Take pity on yourself? Harm yourself?
Harm another? Do bad instead of good?
YOU GOVERN YOUR DECISIONS.
In essence, stop blaming and shaming others for YOUR decisions!!
Whether it be for your failures, your successes, EVEN your achievements!
OWN THE THINGS YOU DO, OWN THE DECISIONS YOU MAKE!
When you own your decisions, you are less likely to dislike or be unhappy with your decisions.
Also, if you OWN your decisions, you will know that you have absolutely NO right to play the blame game on someone else if things go wrong.
Listen to your own voice. Make your own decision. Your life is a product of YOUR choices.
Everyone does through challenging times. Good times and bad. Everyone has a memory of pain and loss, sorrow, anger that make the thought of wanting to continue another day, impossible. However, you must attract goodness into your life. Call into you life, the good things. The goodness and positive light and energy. Take your decisions, own them entirely. This is the one way in which you can take back your life, and bring positive energy into it.
YOU SIMPLY NEED TO MAKE THE RIGHT DECISIONS.
“YOU MUST MAKE THE CHOICE, TO TAKE THE CHANCE, IF YOU WANT ANYTHING IN LIFE TO CHANGE”- Unkown
Til the next one,
Live in Light and Love ❤